Tuesday, June 11, 2013
How to seduce men is something women have been learning for centuries. The art of seduction can get a man to do anything you want them to do. Learning how to seduce men is something all women want to learn. Are you finally ready to learn how to seduce men?The first thing you must do is act flirty.
Guys may love going out to bars, sporting events, etc... but when a girl comes into a picture all that can change especially if the girl is flirty. What do I mean by flirty? Well the next time you and him are sitting alone start rubbing on his thigh, I bet you he will think you're the best thing that has ever happened to him and want you so bad. Don't let him have you right away!
Next, be spontaneous.
Don't wear the same clothes and do the same thing week after week. Do not be predictable. Be spontaneous and full of surprises. For example, surprise your guy with new lingerie and a candlelight dinner. Anything out of the ordinary will seduce him VERY well!
Make yourself feel HOT.
Act like you are HOT. Guys like girls with confidence. If you act like your hot, the guy will totally enjoy it. Guys don't like women that constantly put themselves down all the time. If you act hot and you're HOT it is a surefire way to seduce that guy.
Be in control
Tell him where you are going to eat for the night or even what you are going to do for the night. Guys like women who take charge most of the time. You don't have to be in control 24/7, but on a once in a while basis it will help seduce him in no time at all.
Let go of yourself sometimes. Be playful! Play fight with your guy, poke him in the chest, arm, leg, etc...be flirtatious. Being flirtatious is a deadly weapon all women carry but don't use properly. By being flirtatious you will also show the guy your true feelings for them. Guys loveit when a girl can be flirty but make them wait for sex. Do not give in and let the guy have sex with you right away. Make them wait, for a long time, you will have the guy going crazy for a while.
If the guy really and truly likes you it should not be a problem having them wait to have sex. Giving it up on the first few dates is a big no no! A woman that does this will lose the guy and the guy will just turn it into a one night stand and never call you again. This isn't always the case, but 90% of the time it is completely true. Guys like it when women play hard to get, it is also a surefire way to seduce that man quickly. I wish you the best of luck in seducing the guy of your dreams!
Monday, June 10, 2013
Editor's note: The following is a report on the practical applications ofDannah Gresh's new book, Six Ways to Keep the “Good” in Your Boy: Guiding Your Son from His Tweens to His Teens (Harvest House Publishers, 2012).
While our society often presents unhealthy male role models and celebrates “bad boys,” God’s goal for your son remains the same as it is for every boy He has made: growing up to become a person who reflects God’s own good character.
The best time to lay the foundation of moral goodness in your son’s life is during the tween years, when he is between the ages of 8 and 12. Here’s what you can do to help your son become a good boy who is likely to grow into a good man:
Focus more on God’s promises than the world’s threats. Although the world threatens to influence your son to become a lazy slacker, God promises to help your son become a leader. While the world threatens to pressure your son into becoming a playboy, God promises to shape your son into a gentleman who honors and values women. Although the world threatens to distract your child through things that don’t have eternal value, God promises to show your son His purposes for his life and empower him to fulfill those purposes.
Connect with your son by spending lots of time together. Your son will be motivated to listen to your moral guidance if you develop a strong bond with him by intentionally spending time together talking and doing fun activities that he enjoys. Keep in mind that the concept of “quality time” is a myth; kids need their parents to spend lots of quantity time with them to experience good-quality relationships. Make it a high priority to spend time with your son and sacrifice lesser pursuits so you can be available to him. Try to eat dinner together as a family often, too, such many good conversations happen during meals. While you spend time with your son, study him to get to know the his unique qualities, strengths, and weaknesses so you can communicate God’s values to him in the ways that he will respond to best.
Explain the reasons behind your family’s rules. It will be much easier for your son to follow your family’s rules if he understands why you set them than if he doesn’t know why those rules are important. When communicating a rule to him (or reminding him of one), explain why following that rule will be beneficial to him.
Direct your son’s natural aggressive tendencies and need to take risks toward a positive goal. Realize that it’s normal for your son to experience feelings of aggression and risk-taking urges. But rather than allow your son to express those tendencies in negative ways (which can lead to many problems, such as violence), encourage your son to direct those tendencies toward discovering and fulfilling his life’s mission. Introduce your son to good men whom you respect and admire, and help him learn through relationships with them how to passionately fulfill God’s purposes.
Get your son outside for unstructured play when possible. When your son enjoys free time to play outdoors, he is able to develop a skill called self-regulation that’s a crucial part of developing the self-control to make good moral choices. Freeing up time in your son’s schedule regularly just to play outside with some friends gives him the opportunities he needs to learn how to regulate himself and make wise decisions about what to do and what not to do. Plus, it gives him time spent in nature and time for adventures, both of which are important to his health. When your son plays inside, don’t have him rely on toys to define his playtime. Instead, give him things to play with that encourage him to use his imagination, such as art and writing supplies and building materials.
When deciding how to raise your son to be a man , you have to look at the qualities you want to instill in them. These qualities that you want to raise them with are ones that will follow them through their lives and will hopefully be qualities that they will want to pass on to their children.
The first thing you have to do is teach them the basics about manners, respect, and morals. These help to create a man that will show respect to others, will make decisions based on right and wrong, and develop a sense of what things should be worth fighting for. Manners, respect, and morals will follow them throughout their lives in relationships and professional aspects. Teaching them these things at a young age, will help them to develop better as they are going through school,in dealing with different pressures, and balancing relationships with friends and peers.
While they are growing up , it is important to teach them about compassion and love. When they learn to value people around them and respect the differences they see, they learn to be a little more tolerant and understanding. They will see the world in a different light and want to be the best in changing it. They will question the things that they see wrong and feel is wrong from their hearts and want to do something about it. Learning the importance of love leads to understanding and teaches them the value of what the heart holds. Showing them how much you love them and respect them passes onto other people they come across in life. A man who thinks and feels with his heart will be less likely to be someone who goes through life with their eyes closed.
When they are growing up they need rules. They need to know there are consequences good and bad. Letting them learn from their mistakes and make their own decisions makes them men who think and use logic before making choices. If your son goes through his adolescent life with someone making all his choices for him, he won't be able to make good choices on his own. This decision and learning process makes men who will understand the importance of good judgement in their personal and professional lives.
When you are deciding how to raise your son to be man, think about the things you have seen and grown up with. If your father was a good man, think about the things that made you feel that way about him. Look at your husband, think about the things about him that made you fall in love with him. Those are things that you want to raise your son with.