Saturday, April 13, 2013

how to convince a man to stay

Do you still love him? Are you still willing to give your relationship a second try? Will you be able to convince him to stay and tell him the words "love me again?"
Second chances especially when it comes to relationships can be hard. Contrary to the saying that love is sweeter the second time around, deciding to give a relationship another chance does not always provide the guarantee that the relationship will work out this time. However if you still love the guy an d willing to give it a try then there is nothing to lose. You can say "love me again" to your guy however you also have to be sure about how you feel. Do you still love him? Or are you just in love with the idea of love and so you refuse to let go? If you still love him and want to give the relationship another try, then the following tips can help you convince your guy to stay.
Tip #1: Show Your Mature Side: Most of the time, break-ups happen because of immaturity. You have to be mature in order to handle a relationship. If you are the whiny cry-baby type of person who whines with just about anything then its now time to stop being one. You have to develop maturity. If you cannot then you are not yet ready to be in a relationship. Even if you beg your guy and say "love me again" but you're not even making an effort to be a mature individual, then you will only be rejected.
Tip #2: Learn to be Independent: Show your guy that you are one independent woman and can be counted on to take care of herself. Guys don't like clingy girls. If you can already show him that you can be independent if need be then you will earn his respect. And even if you don't say the words "love me again" to him, he will be the first one to tell you to give your relationship another try.
Tip #3: Refrain from Showing your Insecurities: Insecurities can ruin a relationship. Guys prefer girls who are more secure when it comes to their looks, their careers, and in other aspects. Insecurity can only lead to jealousy, which can then lead to misunderstandings. If you are one insecure girl, you will always suspect that your guy is seeing someone who's a lot prettier or smarter than you. Even if your guy assures you than you're the only one for him, you will not believe him because you are already blinded by your insecurities. Learn to see yourself as someone who can also be better in many ways. If you don't then you will only receive a negative response from your guy if you say the words "love me again" to him.
Tip #4: Live by your Promise: If you promise your guy that your relationship will be based on love, trust, and faithfulness then you have to do it. Thus if you say the words "love me again" to him and willing to treat your relationship as promised, he will then be able to give your relationship another try. He will also be able to give you another chance to fulfill your promise to make your relationship work out the second time around.

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